Transformš¦Your Negative Self-Talk Into Positive Thoughts With Simple Steps
- Maryellen and Natalie

- Sep 3
- 2 min read

When we notice our thoughts and feelings of negative self-talk, it's time to release these old patterns and embrace a more realistic, genuine perspective of our unique light and wisdom. Follow these simple steps to transform your way of thinking:
1. Check Out Your Feelings
Observe the emotions you encounter every day.
Accept that experiencing both positive and negative feelings is normal.
Consider how these emotions influence your perception of yourself.
2. Change Negative Self-Talkšµāš«
Identify common negative thoughts about yourself.
Challenge the truth of these thoughts.
Replace them with positive affirmations that resonate with you.
3. Develop a Mindfulness Practice
Explore mindfulness techniques such asš§meditation or qigong.
Discover the benefits of being present in the moment.
Recognize how being present can improve self-compassion.
4. Create ašGratitude Journal
Begin by listing things you appreciate about yourself (this can be more challenging than it seems). Seek feedback from a friend about what they consider your best qualitiesāyou might be pleasantly surprised.
Shift focus from negative attributes to positive qualities.
Review your journal regularly to reinforce a positive mindset.
5. Surround Yourself with Supportive Tribe
Evaluate your social circle and its influence on your self-perception.
Spend time with people that inspire and uplift you.
6. Remember Perfection is Overrated
Acknowledge that nobody is perfect; flaws are part of being human.
Learn to accept mistakes as opportunities for growth.
Celebrate your own wisdom and gifts and be unaffected by the opinion of others.
7. Engage in Self-Care Activitiesšļø
Make a list of activities that bring you joy and relaxation.
Prioritize time for self-care in your daily routine.
Understand the connection between self-care and self-love.
With some reflection and effort, you can transition to a more positive perception of yourself with compassion and self-love. One effective approach is to recognize negative self-talk and promptly recite the mantra mentioned above, transforming the energy into a more positive light.
Initially, it might feel daunting with everything you have to accomplish daily, so remember to take action, even if it's just one step at a time. Transformation is a gradual journey, and every step is significant. See this blog on self-love for more ideas.
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